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The Black Friend: On Being a Better White Person Paperback – March 4, 2021
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“We don’t see color.” “I didn’t know Black people liked Star Wars!” “What hood are you from?” For Frederick Joseph, life in a mostly white high school as a smart and increasingly popular transfer student was full of wince-worthy moments that he often simply let go. As he grew older, however, he saw these as missed opportunities not only to stand up for himself, but to spread awareness to the white friends and acquaintances who didn’t see the negative impact they were having and who would change if they knew how.
Speaking directly to the reader, The Black Friend calls up race-related anecdotes from the author’s past, weaving in his thoughts on why they were hurtful and how he might handle things differently now. Each chapter includes the voice of at least one artist or activist, including Tarell Alvin McCraney, screenwriter of Moonlight; April Reign, creator of #OscarsSoWhite; Angie Thomas, author of The Hate U Give; and eleven others. Touching on everything from cultural appropriation to power dynamics, “reverse racism” to white privilege, microaggressions to the tragic results of overt racism, this book serves as conversation starter, tool kit, and invaluable window into the life of a former “token Black kid” who now presents himself as the friend many of us need. Back matter includes an encyclopedia of racism, providing details on relevant historical events, terminology, and more.
- Print length272 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherWalker Books Ltd.
- Publication dateMarch 4, 2021
- Dimensions5.08 x 0.63 x 7.8 inches
- ISBN-101529500613
- ISBN-13978-1529500615
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- Publisher : Walker Books Ltd. (March 4, 2021)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 272 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1529500613
- ISBN-13 : 978-1529500615
- Item Weight : 6.3 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.08 x 0.63 x 7.8 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,276,479 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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About the author
Frederick is a two-time New York Times bestselling author of The Black Friend (2020) and Patriarchy Blues (2022), Better Than We Found It (2022) and Black Panther: Wakanda Forever - The Courage to Dream (2022). He was recognized for the International Literacy Association’s 2021 Children’s & Young Adults’ Book Award, is a 2019 Forbes 30 Under 30 list-maker for marketing and advertising, an activist, philanthropist, and poet.
Frederick was also honored with the 2023 Malcolm X and Dr. Betty Shabazz Vanguard Award, the 2018 Comic-Con Humanitarian of the Year award and is a member of the 2018 “The Root 100" list of Most Influential African Americans.
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The Black Friend is written for young adults but it would be great for adults as well, especially for those who are just beginning the work of becoming an anti-racist. Each chapter covers a different general topic – affirmative action, cultural appropriation, colorblindness, etc. At the end of each chapter, he interviews a prominent person of color, like Angie Thomas, author of The Hate U Give and April Reign founder of the #OscarsSoWhite movement.
Joseph writes with a conversational tone and weaves in his personal story throughout the book. His journey to adulthood had some missteps and awkward moments so he doesn’t talk down to the reader. His sense of humor keeps the book entertaining as well as informative. He includes an Encyclopedia of Racism at the end with helpful information that everyone, especially teens, may not know, like what Brexit or the Tulsa Race Massacre is. Putting it at the end helps the body of the book flow more easily. There are a few other extras at the end, like a playlist and recommended reading.
I loved this book. I think it should be required reading for high school students. It’s a quick read but packed with information written in a way that is easily digestible for kids and adults as well. The only times I was reminded that I was reading a young adult book were when he would say things like he was so old he watched The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, as if the reader wouldn’t have heard of that show. Or that he’s so old he remembers when YouTube started. Um, I remember when the internet started!
Highly recommended.
Second, the book reads easy and informal and straightforward...in a good way. It is similar to Ibram X. Kendi's 'How to be an Anti-Racist' in the way it progresses through experiences as Frederick grows up and lives through the events. It was so readable that I sat and read it in one evening and just couldn't put it down. It made me laugh out loud at least twice and also compelled to think hard about things I had said and done when I was younger.
Finally, I recommend this book to anyone looking to listen to the story of a Black man who opens up about his story and explore what you should do in response. I strongly recommend this book for young people, young men specifically, and young white men even more specifically. Frederick writes in a way allowing the reader to empathize with his experience while assessing their own biases and actions at the same time. I have three boys and they will all be reading this book in the next several years. A humble and deeply appreciative thank you to Frederick Joseph for sharing his story with us and the world.
He also explains how & why certain movements came to be, and what those of us with light skin can do to create positive change in society.
I highly recommend this book. It’s an easy read, clearly written.
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too old to get the film and musical references but I am determined to educate myself. A great and necessary book.